If there is anything I know, I have come to know that I am not perfect...I am surrounded by imperfect people..and each one of us are just striving to find our place in the world..we are tryin to learn how to be successful, how to grow, how to be happy and most of all we are just trying to find out who we are and who were suppose to be..Some of us have hard hearts and arent willing to open our hearts to the world...some of us have such a soft heart, we let people walk all over us and find that it is okay...whoever you may be in this world...big heart or just YOUR heart..you are important...you are making a difference..You may not know it, you may not even feel it...But I can promise you, that if you were to just open your mind, open your heart..someone just wants to know what is there..Have you ever felt like every one can see that good in you? Cept you? Well guess what? You could see it too, if you just realized, people really do listen to you..they are there not only when its bad...but they are there when it is good too..People pray for you, people want whats best for you...and I know this all to be true cause I have seen it..It is hard to see something, if you are only giving half your heart..what are you gonna get from that? Well let me tell you something now...what we give to this world is exactly what we are gonna get back..believe it or not, only we can come to understand that..We all deserve to be happy, we all deserve to know that someone out there somewhere, is looking out for us..you offer this world something, that nobody else can give..that is why you are here..give the world, the gifts God has has given you..that is why you have them..explore them..make the most of them..cause nobody can do it except youuu!! We will come to understand that, if we just believe in that, we can make a difference!We all deserve a second chance, we all deserve to be forgiven..we all have a different defination of what that may be...but,
As you walk away from reading this post I want you to remember something...not everything is everyone elses fault..you do things wrong too, and I am sure you know that. But quit playing the victim when things dont go your way.. Take responsibility for what you are doing wrong, cause I promise you..you are doin something that is creating someone to act the way they are..take this for example..have you ever got in a relationship and EVERYTHING is just simply great?? There is all honesty, there is communication, alot of laughing, smiling..but somewhere down the road something goes wrong? And it is soo easy to blame the other person for that? Guess what? You may of reacted a certain way to get them to react that way..your body language may of struck a coard in them..and they may not wanna be that way with you anymore..soo remember the next time you go to blame someone..take a look at yourself first, and make sure what you are doing..isnt "perfect" but also remember too...Not everything is your fault either, but you do play a role in every relationship :)
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