Time..

Change? What is it really? Is it something that really does stay for a long time? Is it something that really makes a difference in who we are? This word has been on my mind quite a bit lately and I cant seem to get it off my mind...there are times I feel like everyone around me, has it in them to change..but then the thought comes across my mind, what if that is just part of their personality? What really defines change? What really makes you a different person? Maybe the experiences we go through? Maybe even just the things we go through? Hmmm...I really dont know, cause what if the experience comes back around again and we fall back into the same thing we were doing before? I..just I dont know, there are times when I realistically think about things and there is just no way that someone could make a difference. There really is no way that someone could not be who they are and change into a whole new person? What are peoples thoughts when it comes to this?